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How to Create
Success
10 Benchmarks for Achievement
By Gerhard Gschwandtner
After years of interviewing more than 80 superachievers
for cover stories in Selling Power magazine and conducting
a scientific study of success with the University of Massachusetts
at Amherst, we now have conclusive evidence that highly
successful individuals are wealthier, enjoy their families
more, experience better health, find more meaning in life,
work more effectively, and feel better about their lives.
If you want to enjoy some -- or all -- of
these benefits in the future, invest 30 minutes today to
discover how you can create more success for yourself and
your company.
This article covers 10 important success characteristics
that all superachievers have in common. After reading about
each individual success skill, you will find a brief success
benchmark test. In the same way that corporations look for
benchmarks to achieve excellence, top sales achievers seek
out benchmarks to avoid plateaus and reach ever higher levels
of success.
The benchmarks in this article will help you
compare your performance in 10 key areas to the performance
of superachievers. As you discover how these superachievers
think and act, you will be able to set new guidelines and
standards of performance that will help you create more
success.
EXECUTIVE SUMMARY
The objective of this guide is to help you
understand and master the 10 critical factors that can help
you create more personal and professional success. You will
learn:
* How positive thinking begins your success process
* How physical fitness creates the energy for your success
* Why integrity is the only foundation that can support
success
* Why disappointment becomes the cradle of ambition
* How goals generate the vision to keep you going
* How persistence and concentration help you win
* Why adversity is essential for rising beyond your limitations
* Why you don't have a chance to win without motivation
* How to think constructively to create your success
* How professional skills contribute to success
1. POSITIVE THINKING: Success Begins in Your
Mind
When I first started Personal Selling Power,
I wasn't too confident that our publication would make it
through the first year. Then I learned about the humble
beginnings of some of the great motivators like Dr. Norman
Vincent Peale. I remember reading every article and every
book he had written before calling his office. I remember
worrying, "He'll never take the time to talk to a little
guy like me," and I was surprised to hear that he was
only too happy to visit with me in his New York office.
I recall sitting in the elegant waiting room
going over my questions and wondering, "What if I don't
get any new information from him because I am not trained
to interview people?" I was wrong again. Dr. Peale's
enthusiasm was contagious, he answered every one of my questions
thoughtfully and his reassuring words wiped away my own
negative thoughts.
Dr. Peale suggested that our thoughts and
images are mainly responsible for how we feel. He explained,
"You can make yourself sick with your thoughts and
you can make yourself well with them. A positive emotion
is created by positive thoughts and images. You can say,
`This is a great day. I am fortunate to sell a wonderful
product. I look forward to meeting many interesting people
today; I'll be able to help some of these people and I look
forward to learning a great deal today...' You see, thinking
and talking that way adds to your enthusiasm and vitality.
Your mind is expanding and all this contributes to your
well being."
Dr. Peale shared examples of many people who
wore themselves out by the debilitating quality of their
thoughts. He said, "If you put yourself down mentally,
you are reducing the vitality of your system. I knew a doctor
once who told me of a man who actually killed himself by
hate thoughts."
I asked him how we can be successful dealing
with problems so we can create more success. Dr. Peale answered,
"A problem is a concentrated opportunity. The only
people that I ever have known to have no problems are in
the cemetery. The more problems you have, the more alive
you are. Every problem contains the seeds of its own solution.
I often say, when the Lord wants to give you the greatest
value in this world, he doesn't wrap it in a sophisticated
package and hand it to you on a silver platter. He is too
subtle, too adroit, for that. He takes this big value and
buries it at the heart of a big, tough problem. How he must
watch with delight when you've got what it takes to break
that problem apart and find at its heart what the Bible
calls `the pearl of great price.' Everybody I've ever known
who succeeded in a big way in life has done so by breaking
problems apart and finding the value that was there."
Dr. Peale helped me realize that I needed
to change my tendency to predict negative results. Over
time I learned how to silence the "misfortune-teller"
within me and I found positive thinking to be a very successful
way of life.
Positive Thinking
Answer each question below. Give yourself
10 points for each Yes answer and 0 points for each No answer.
Add the totals.
POINTS
1. Are you thinking positively about yourself
and your job today?
2. Did you smile before leaving home this morning?
3. When you deal with negative people, do you always maintain
a positive attitude?
4. Have you helped a client solve a problem in the past
three days?
5. Do you currently have a clearly defined, enthusiastic
goal?
6. When you lose a sale, do you immediately go to work on
restoring your positive attitude?
7. During the past 24 hours, have you read (or listened
to) positive material?
8. Are you planning for a positive, quiet moment for yourself
today?
9. Do you sincerely feel that each problem facing you contains
the seeds to its own solution?
10. When you are calling on a tough client, do you visualize
a positive outcome before the call?
Your Total Score
Rating Yourself: A score of 100 means that
you are 100 percent positive. The difference between your
score and 100 indicates the amount of positive thinking
required for a more positive "you." Until your
score is 100, read the classic bestseller The Power of Positive
Thinking by Dr. Norman Vincent Peale.
2. FITNESS: Creating Energy For Success
When I first interviewed Zig Ziglar, I was
impressed by his commitment to physical fitness. Although
he had been inactive and overweight in his late thirties,
he gradually started an exercise program by first walking,
then jogging until it became a positive, energy-generating
habit. Many top performers follow a regular, ongoing physical
fitness program. I was impressed with Zig's persistence,
because my own physical activity was limited to skiing in
the winter and sailing or swimming in the summer. Since
Zig talked about his mentor Dr. Ken Cooper, the man who
pioneered the fitness movement that has swept this country
for the past two decades, I thought that it would be a good
idea to learn more about his work.
"Fitness," Dr. Cooper explained,
"begins on the inside, with our cardio-vascular system.
Fitness is the result of ongoing, concentrated aerobic activity
along with proper dietary balance."
What made the interview with Dr. Cooper so
interesting was that he himself once was out of shape and
felt that he was "mentally dying of stagnation."
After a scary experience on water skis where years of deconditioning
caused his heartbeat to increase to the point that his head
was spinning, Dr. Cooper became so depressed about his physical
deterioration that he began to change his lifestyle.
"Fitness can't be stored," says
Dr. Cooper, suggesting that if we want to keep fit, we have
to keep exercising. He encourages people to work out a minimum
of 30 minutes, three times a week, or 20 minutes four times
a week. Dr. Cooper cautions people not to overdo aerobics
(aerobics means to exercise with air), saying, "If
you are running more than 15 miles per week, you are running
for something other than cardiovascular fitness."
In his speeches he asks people to measure
their heart rate in beats per minute. A heart rate from
50 to 60 is excellent, between 60 to 70 is considered good,
and 70 to 80 is average. Dr. Cooper's studies suggest that
middle-aged men between 45 and 55 years of age, who had
an average heart rate of 72 beats per minute could decrease
their heart rate to 55 beats per minute after three months
of systematic conditioning.
Dr. Cooper thinks that aerobic exercise is
nature's best tranquilizer and it dissipates stress. Dr.
Cooper says that during a stressful day, our adrenal system
produces hormones that set us up for flight or fight responses.
When we stop working, our body can't relax until the chemical
imbalance has been corrected. While many people use a drink
or a drug to restore the chemical imbalance, aerobic exercise
provides for a natural, physiological release of the stress
and at the same time it improves our physical fitness. In
addition, says Dr. Cooper, "There are a number of side
benefits such as greater enthusiasm, better energy levels,
increased confidence and improved attitudes."
Sold by this evidence, I decided to follow
Dr. Cooper's advice. For the past nine years I have walked
and jogged regularly, three to four times a week. It has
become a pleasant routine that I always look forward to.
I've learned that walking is a wonderful way to let go of
stress. When I started, I thought that running was a form
of self-punishment, now I see it as a joyful exercise that
helps me perform to the limits of my ability.
Fitness
1. Do you follow a regular, aerobic exercise
routine? Yes No
2. Is your resting heart rate under 70 beats
per minute? Yes No
3. Is your weight what your doctor recommends?
Yes No
4. Do you work off stress through regular
exercise? Yes No
5. Do you get regular physical check-ups?
Yes No
6. Do you check with your doctor before you
try a new diet or exercise routine? Yes No
Note: If you can't answer all questions with
"yes," read The Aerobics Program for Total Well
Being by Dr. Ken Cooper.
3. INTEGRITY: Your Foundation For Success
In 1973, just one year after I came to America,
I watched the televised Watergate hearings. There was one
old senator from North Carolina, a folksy, Bible quoting,
story telling country lawyer, a former judge named Sam J.
Ervin, Jr. Looking over his reading glasses, he gave Nixon
advisors an eye opening cram course on integrity. His sharp
wit and insights into human behavior made a deep impression
on me.
In 1983, when the senator was enjoying his
retirement back home in Morganton, North Carolina, I called
his office to set up an interview. He graciously agreed
and, as I prepared for the interview, I realized that this
superachiever had dedicated his life to public service.
He loved and defended the Constitution and had spent a lifetime
searching for the truth. In the long conversation with Senator
Ervin, I learned that integrity is our best insurance for
success.
Yet, he cautioned, "Telling the truth
does not come easily to everyone." He referred to former
President Richard Nixon, saying, "As a general rule,
people are the authors of their own misfortunes." I
wondered how other people could hang on to their success
and avoid making the same mistake. Senator Ervin offered
this insight: "We all find occasions where we have
to choose between what we believe is right and what we suspect
is advantageous. And that is quite a conflict."
He remembered this advice from one of his
law school professors: "The things which try people's
souls do not consist of choosing between good and evil.
That's fairly simple. But the thing that tries our souls
is having to choose between conflicting loyalties. That's
the hardest thing we ever have to do."
As a judge he had heard many people rationalize
their failures. He said, "A lot of people made choices
which I thought were unwise, but when I stopped to analyze
these, I realized that they were making choices between
conflicting loyalties."
Sam Ervin created his success by being an
industrious, honest and dedicated leader. In a speech at
the University of North Carolina, he told students, "The
world of the mind is an illimitable land whose boundaries
are as vast as the universe itself, and thought is calling
us at all times to the undiscovered countries lying beyond
the next visible range of mountains."
Driving home from this memorable interview,
I realized that once you have met someone like Senator Sam
Ervin, you don't have to consult a dictionary to look up
the meaning of the word "integrity," which he
defined for me as "the absolute fidelity to the truth."
Integrity
1. Does your plan for success include a personal
standard of ethics?
2. When you have to choose between what is
right and what is advantageous, do you always choose to
do what's right?
3. What is your definition of integrity?
4. Do you practice integrity in all your dealings
with your customers and with your company?
4. DISAPPOINTMENT: The Cradle of Ambition
Disappointment is the most overlooked force
that can help us create success.
I remember the day when I researched the Library
of Congress catalog for books on success. I found over 1,200
titles on this popular subject. In addition, there were
220 books on winning, but only 16 on losing.
When I searched under the subject heading
of disappointment, I was surprised that there was not a
single book on record. I wondered why, because disappointment
is such a common experience.
There was only one magazine article entitled
"The Management of Disappointment" (The Harvard
Business Review, Nov/Dec 1967) written by Dr. Abraham Zaleznik.
I wanted to understand more about the subject
and called the Harvard Business School, where Dr. Zaleznik
was the Konosuke Matsushita Professor of Leadership. His
background includes a doctorate in commercial science and,
he is a certified clinical psychoanalyst who has taught
at the Boston Psychoanalytic Society.
When we met, I asked, "What does disappointment
mean?" Dr. Zaleznik replied, "Let's start with
a superficial definition. You want something, you don't
get it, the result is disappointment. But disappointment
is not simply the result of not getting what one wants or
expects. We need to examine what it is about that want that
makes it psychologically significant. What a person wants
often has enormous unconscious value and, consequently,
not getting it takes on a great deal of significance."
What makes disappointment such an unexpected
trap for the success seeker is that it is often realized
after people become successful. Says Dr. Zaleznik: "Many
people charge a business venture with certain unrealistic
dreams. When a person finally gets what he or she has been
working so hard for and sees that the unconscious dreams
aren't realized, the result will be a tremendous disappointment."
Disappointment is such an isolating experience because the
world of business is perpetually preoccupied with success.
Says Zaleznik, "The world loves a winner, nobody likes
a loser. So people expect that they have to come on with
the bright, cheerful, upbeat mask, because the world loves
a winner. There is a strong code in business that if we
are disappointed, we are not supposed to show it."
When people suffer from disappointment t,
they tend to go through stages from hyperactivity to depression.
Dr. Zaleznik explained that disappointment is associated
with rage, "Rage towards oneself for falling short.
The enormous shame or humiliation that one has not measured
up to one's ideal. Rage towards others who did not fulfill..."
After studying the lives of many gifted leaders
such as Winston Churchill, Gandhi, Henry Ford and General
Patton, Dr. Zaleznik came to the conclusion that disappointment
can become the most powerful force for creating future success.
In his Harvard Business Review article he wrote, "Preoccupation
with success may be less important than the role of disappointment
in the evolution of a career."
He described how Winston Churchill suffered
great disappointment during World War I, learned how to
paint, took up writing and refocused his energies from the
political world to himself. He added, "It takes a great
deal of courage to look at life as it is and to look at
ourselves as we are and to come to terms."
Dr. Zaleznik recommends that people should
not withdraw from the battle after suffering disappointment,
but allow for a psychological retreat where they can rediscover
themselves, and rediscover that life and their place in
it has real meaning.
Disappointment
1. Looking at past disappointments, can you
see how they have helped you grow? Yes No
2. Are you willing to accept present and future
disappointments as growth experiences? Yes No
3. Do you to accept the fact that you can't
expect much sympathy from other people when you are experiencing
disappointment? Yes No
4. Do you have the courage to look at life
as it is? Yes No
5. When you experience disappointment, do
you give yourself a chance to rediscover your true strengths?
Yes No
Note: If you can't answer any of the above
questions with "Yes," and if your hurt is alarmingly
deep, you may consider getting professional help.
5. GOALS: The Vision That Keeps You Going
One of the most common characteristics that
I have observed from interviewing over 80 superachievers
during the past 11 years is that they knew where they were
going. They all were determined to reach their goals and
would not let any obstacle discourage them. For example,
Mo Siegel, the founder of Celestial Seasonings, told us,
"I think that you either follow the basic principles
[for creating success] or you are going to get nailed. If
you don't set goals, you don't get anywhere. That's so basic.
The thing that I enjoy in my business is figuring out the
overall mission, then establishing goals, developing the
strategies, then the action plan and the calendar by which
they must be completed."
Superachievers choose a course, stay on course
and if circumstances force them to drift off course, they
do everything they can to get back on course. Bo Pilgrim,
the founder of Pilgrim Industries, a $300 million producer
of chicken in the Southwest, told us, "After I made
my first million dollars [in sales], I said, `Maybe I can
make ten million.' After I made ten million, my next goal
was to make ten million a year."
Each year, Bo Pilgrim set higher goals until
he made one million dollars each day. "The key lies
in having a management control system," he explained,
"and having managers who understand those goals and
perform in that direction. I also set up a monthly award
system where we compare actual performance versus goals.
If my managers meet the goals, they'll receive a bonus check
at the end of the month."
Jim Tunney, well known in football circles
as the "Dean of Referees," once told Personal
Selling Power, "A goal is like a magnet to top performers.
It motivates. It directs. It pulls them around detours and
distractions. If you choose goals which are personal and
deeply felt, suddenly you have a clear road map."
Multi-millionaire W. Clement Stone estimated
that 98 out of every 100 people who are dissatisfied with
their world do not have a clear picture in their minds of
the world they would like for themselves. In a memorable
interview in his luxurious lakeside home in Chicago, he
told me, "Think of it! Think of the people who drift
aimlessly through life, dissatisfied, struggling against
a great many things, but without a clear-cut goal."
Pollster George Gallup, Jr., talked to Personal
Selling Power about his own research of the most successful
people in America. He said, "Most top achievers have
had clear goals for their lives and their careers."
Having a clear vision of where you are going will keep you
going from success to success. Once you have reached your
goals, remember to set new goals to keep on going.
Many superachievers told me that they view
success as a journey. They always aim at success, but never
think that they have achieved it.
Goals
1. Do you have a personal mission statement
to bring your life energies into focus? Yes No
2. Are you following a clearly stated and
achievable goal for your career and for your personal life?
Yes No
3. Do you have a detailed daily, weekly and
monthly action plan for achieving your goals? Yes No
4. Do you regularly check your progress and
adjust your course? Yes No
5. Do your goals include ongoing education
to insure your progress? Yes No
6. Do you reward yourself for achieving your
goals? Yes No
7. When you run into difficulties, do you
redouble your efforts and renew your faith in your mission
and your goals? Yes No
6. PERSISTENCE & CONCENTRATION: Twin Drives
For Winning
Many people fail in their quest for success
because they are unwilling to develop the power of persistence
or they are unable to concentrate on their goal until they've
achieved what they wanted to achieve.
Ralph Waldo Emerson wrote in The Conduct of
Life, "Concentration is the secret of strength in politics,
in war, in trade, in short in all management of human affairs."
While many people squander their physical and mental abilities,
successful people learn how to focus, concentrate and persist.
One of the best examples for persistence and
concentration is the inventor Thomas A. Edison. He was once
asked by a reporter for the secret that could best explain
his continued success.
Edison answered, "The ability to apply
my physical and mental energies to one problem incessantly
without growing weary." When the reporter suggested
that Edison imposed a rather severe schedule on himself,
the inventor laughed, saying, "You do something all
day long, don't you? Everyone does. If you get up at seven
o'clock and go to bed at 11, you have put in 16 good hours,
and it is certain that most people have been doing something
all the time. The only trouble is that they do it about
a great many things and I do it about one. If they took
the time in question and applied it in one direction, to
one object, they would succeed. The trouble lies in the
fact that people do not have an object, one thing to which
they stick, letting all else go."
Ron Rice, the founder of Hawaiian Tropic,
told Personal Selling Power about how he used the power
of persistence and concentration to build his business:
"I had an old Ford Mustang convertible, and the ocean
had just about eaten it apart. I just drove around to pool
decks and lifeguards and little beach front Mom & Pop
stores, and sold it [the suntan lotion] to them. I was driven
to the point where I had to work physically and mentally
all day long. I'd do everything before I could feel comfortable
about going home at night. Sometimes I'd go a whole day
without eating and not realize it 'til the next day."
Persistence is the trademark of all pioneers in any field
of endeavor.
Victor Kiam, the successful entrepreneur who
turned Remington around, told Personal Selling Power, "Let's
say you started a new publishing venture and your first
issue is supposed to come out on the first of the next month
and it is the thirty-first. You realize that you are going
to have to work hard all night to get it out. Then a friend
of yours calls up and says, `I've got two tickets to tonight's
World Series game. How about it?' You have a choice."
Kiam agreed that going to the World Series
game is a lot more fun than working late, but if you want
to create success, you have to persist, you have to resist
distractions and concentrate on your goal.
Granted, persistence and concentration mean
work. But work is a small price to pay for success. "We
don't pay the price of success," says Zig Ziglar, America's
leading motivational speaker. "We only pay the price
for failure." Many people realize too late that failure
demands a much greater energy investment than success.
Persistence & Concentration
1. Are you willing to do everything in your
power to succeed? Yes No
2. When you know that you have to move mountains
of work to get the job done, do you keep going? Yes No
3. When people tell you what you are trying
to do can't be done, do you keep going? Yes No
4. Do you feel that achieving success is worth
putting in 16-hour days if necessary? Yes No
5. Do you agree with the saying "When
fate resists, I will persist"? Yes No
6. Do you habitually apply all your energy
to one goal without growing weary? Yes No
7. MANAGING ADVERSITY: Rise Beyond Your Limitations
A wise philosopher once stated that an eagle's
only obstacle to overcome for flying faster is the air.
Yet, if the air were withdrawn, and the proud bird were
to fly in a vacuum, it would fall to the ground. The element
that offers resistance is at the same time the condition
of flight.
The same is true of a powerboat. The main
obstacle the engine has to overcome is the water against
the propeller, yet if it were not for the water's resistance
the boat would not move at all.
The same law, that obstacles are conditions
of success, holds true in human life. Without any difficulty,
forward momentum would be impossible. Obstacles can lead
us to search for new energies within us that we never believed
we had.
To learn more about how to manage adversity,
Personal Selling Power interviewed several Navy pilots who
spent many years in North Vietnamese prison camps and survived
torture, malnutrition and humiliation. Captain Gerald Coffee
told us, "I think that one of the most helpful techniques
that I used all the time was a constant reminder that whatever
was happening at a given time wouldn't be forever. Every
time I went to bed at night, I would say to myself, `Okay,
that's one day closer to whatever it is.' In a torture session
I would remind myself that this can't last forever. Just
the rephrasing of `This too shall pass.' You can say to
yourself, `Hold on, there will be better times. Hold on,
it's going to get better.'"
Coffee, who was imprisoned for seven years,
explained his method for dealing with the excruciating pain:
"You try to detach yourself from the circumstance as
best you can by projecting into some other time and place.
But in any case, you detach yourself from the present reality."
Paul Galanti, a graduate of the prestigious
United States Naval Academy who spent almost seven years
in captivity, shared with us a mystical experience following
a brutal torture session. It happened one day in January
of 1969 after he spent 25 days chained to a stool in an
unheated interrogation room. He was not permitted to sleep.
If he tried to doze off, the guards would rush in and hit
him with a rifle butt. He felt drugged and feared that he
was about to lose his mind.
Suddenly, a strange figure materialized in
the room with him. The figure carefully explained that the
North Vietnamese were trying to get him to sign a confession
and told Galanti, "Hang tough, I'm always with you.
Don't give up." He stiffened his resolve and resisted
further interrogation attempts. To this day, Galanti insists
that the figure, who he says looked similar to the image
of Jesus Christ on the shroud of Turin, was a messenger
from God who came in at the exact moment necessary to keep
him from weakening and possibly killing himself. This moment
filled him with the courage to rise past the adversity,
and the experience changed his whole life.
Both Gerald Coffee and Paul Galanti confirmed
that the best way to fight adversity is through winning
a hundred little victories each day. Says Captain Coffee,
"A hundred little victories throughout the day can
make a tremendous difference in the success of that day.
Victory and blessing are almost interchangeable. The fact
that we wake up in the morning is a blessing and a victory.
As POWs it meant outsmarting one of the guards so you could
communicate with another POW. Another victory was outsmarting
the rat so you could eat all of your bread, instead of letting
the rat get some of it."
Every year there is a reunion of Navy pilots
who were held captive in North Vietnam. No outsiders or
press are allowed. As friends of Paul Galanti, we were invited
to attend their reunion in Virginia Beach and had the opportunity
to talk to dozens of former POWs. Every single member of
this extraordinary group of people was more positive, enthusiastic
and cheerful about life than any other group I have ever
met before. They are not bitter about the fact that they've
lost some of the best years of their lives. They've all
learned the key lessons adversity can teach us. When I asked
Paul to explain why none of these people complained about
anything he said, "I am convinced that people who complain
about adversity have just never been pushed so hard that
they've had to fight back and win little victories."
Adversity
1. Do you view adversity as the diamond dust
with which nature polishes its jewels?
2. Do you face adversity with faith in yourself
and courage in your abilities to rise beyond?
3. When you feel that you've reached your
limit, do you encourage yourself not to give up?
4. Do you sincerely believe that out of difficulty,
new strength is born?
5. Are you prepared to fight to win little
victories every single day?
8. MOTIVATION: The Action That Precedes Success
Daniel Boorstin wrote in his book The Discoverers:
"The greatest obstacle to discovering the shape of
the earth, the continents and the ocean was not ignorance,
but the illusion of knowledge."
Many salespeople think they completely understand
the process of motivation. Most don't. Their illusion of
knowledge prevents them from getting motivated.
Mary Kay Ash, the chairman of Mary Kay Cosmetics,
opened a storefront in Dallas in 1963; today her name is
revered by thousands of highly motivated Mary Kay representatives.
Mary Kay told Personal Selling Power, "Motivation is
the ability to inspire a person, to reach down within himself
or herself, to bring to fruition those wonderful `seeds
of greatness' that God planted in each of us."
Every superachiever I've ever interviewed
was highly motivated. They see motivation as an action management
tool. Action creates motivation, while inaction demotivates.
Study after study shows that the promise of achievement
is one of the greatest sources of motivation. A few years
ago, behavioral scientists in Baltimore asked a group of
students to take a set of five rings and toss them over
cones placed at the other end of the room. When the students
asked what distance they should stand from the cones, they
were told that it didn't matter, since the scientists only
wanted to study their behavior.
The researchers found that one group of students
went as close as possible to the cones, then tossed the
rings over the cones, got bored very quickly, turned in
their rings and left. A second group went to the other end
of the room and tried their luck. They couldn't get a single
ring over the cones and they became frustrated. They left
feeling low. A third group of students assumed a distance
of about ten to 12 feet. They had a few hits and a few misses.
With a bit of practice they increased the distance to 15,
then 20 feet. They enjoyed the challenge and their growing
skills. The students learned that achievement motivation
comes from pursuing challenging goals that provides room
for growth.
Superachievers look for challenges that are
just slightly above their reach so that they can grow in
the process.
Motivation
1. Do you assume 100 percent of the responsibility
motivating yourself?
2. Are you motivated to be the best that you
can be?
3. When you set a new goal, do you also plan
for motivating rewards for yourself and others?
4. Do you seek out new motivation ideas from
mentors, role-models and biographies of successful people?
5. Is the mission you have chosen in life
a source of meaning, satisfaction and motivation?
9. CONSTRUCTIVE THINKING: Your Elevator To
Success
I always wondered about the key ingredient
that made superachievers think and act differently from
all other achievers. I remember interviewing Earl Nightingale
for a cover story in Personal Selling Power. Since he had
studied many successful people I asked him what he thought
was the critical difference.
Nightingale told me, "When I was 29,
I was reading Think and Grow Rich by Napoleon Hill. I came
across six words that made a big difference in my life:
` We become what we think about .'
Earl's words stayed with me and, three years
later, I learned about Dr. Seymour Epstein's research on
the thinking styles of highly successful people. After a
long interview with Epstein, who was chairman of the Department
of Psychology at the University of Massachusetts at Amherst,
we agreed to conduct a joint study to examine the thinking
styles of 50 superachievers who had been interviewed for
Personal Selling Power during the past ten years and compare
them to the thinking styles of 250 of our average readers.
The results of the study were truly surprising.
The superachievers were wealthier, enjoyed their families
more, found more meaning in life, worked more effectively
and had developed better social skills. In addition, they
enjoyed better health and felt better about their lives.
The most interesting survey result, however, was the fact
that superachievers think differently than average achievers.
Dr. Epstein found nine key differences:
1. Superachievers think in ways that make
them less sensitive to disapproval and rejection. They brush
off rejection faster.
2. They think in ways that facilitate effective
action.
3. Their thoughts are more focused on the
task at hand and they refuse to let their minds drift to
unpleasant events of the past.
If they can't do anything about a negative
situation, they don't worry about it and they move on with
their lives.
4. They don't engage in superstitious thoughts.
When something bad happens, they don't assume that more
bad things are likely to follow. 5. They think that failures
are an important source of learning and refuse to equate
failure with low self-worth. Thinking constructively saves
them from wasting time and suffering psychological pain.
6. They don't restrict their thinking by establishing
rigid patterns. They don't divide others into "winners"
and "losers," but accept people for who they are
as individuals.
7. They think thoughts through without jumping
to false conclusions. They are able to see their actions
and the world in a healthy and realistic perspective. They
are optimists, yet think realistically.
8. They welcome challenges with optimism and
without fear. When they face difficulties, they find ways
to look at the positive side of life. They establish clear
priorities, develop an effective action plan and stick to
it.
9. They don't waste time in unproductive thoughts,
esoteric thoughts or catastrophic thoughts. They think constructively
and they know that their level of thinking determines their
level of success.
Dr. Epstein's research reminded me of Dr.
Zaleznik's comments on the subject of thinking: "Remember
that thinking can help you make the most of your experience.
Thinking is an experimental form of action. Action can be
very expensive. There is no charge for thinking."
Constructive Thinking
Review the nine constructive thinking habits
that superachievers have developed. Make these habits your
own benchmark for success.
10. PROFESSIONAL SKILLS: Your Chief Source
Of Success
Superachievers outperform others for one simple
reason: they develop their professional skills to the point
that they become the best in their field of endeavor. For
example, Ed McMahon told me how he had practiced for hours
on end as a bingo truck announcer just to develop the quality
of his voice.
Zig Ziglar developed his legendary speaking
skills by giving hundreds of free speeches before accepting
payment for his services. He shows salespeople how they
can increase their skills through practice, saying, "Try
to write down your presentation, and you'll discover that
you are using too many words, that you drift away from the
point, or that you are not specific enough. Writing will
remind you of something you've forgotten and help you generate
better selling ideas."
Zig Ziglar feels that salespeople should think
of their occupation as a profession. He told Personal Selling
Power: "Professionalism starts with a commitment to
excellence, to integrity and to helping the customer solving
a problem with your expertise." To increase the salesperson's
expertise and skills, ongoing training and development is
essential. Says Ziglar, "The individual who's not spending
a minimum of one hour a day developing his selling skills
is just kidding himself about how serious he is as a professional."
While many superachievers have learned their
skills through self-development, others have followed formal
education or training programs. For example, Dr. Norman
Vincent Peale told me how a stern newspaper editor helped
him hone his writing skills through expert advice, and at
the same time insisting on his rewriting his story until
he had produced the best article he was capable of writing.
Buck Rodgers, the former VP of sales and marketing
with IBM, told me that the typical IBM training program
for newly hired marketing representatives takes one whole
year. Representatives receive a 30-day orientation, then
go to a training center to learn product knowledge and selling
techniques. Then they go back to a branch office where they
apply what they have learned and work with marketing representatives
and systems engineers on real life proposals and visit customers.
After about three months, they go back to the classroom
for another 30 days to expand their skills and knowledge.
The IBM training is based on the principle
of alternating theory and practicality. According to Rodgers,
the process is very competitive and the representatives
are on their feet as much as possible. When they've graduated,
they're totally confident about their products, their competition
and their communication and selling skills.
Rodgers suggested that the ones who practice
daily excellence are those who make the real difference.
He emphasized that success is not the result of developing
a single skill. He explained, "The thing I stress all
the time is that you have to do a thousand things one percent
better, not just one thing 1,000 percent better."
Professional Skills
1. Have you received professional training
in product knowledge, selling skills and personal motivation?
2. Do you strive to improve your professional
skills through ongoing practice and ongoing study?
3. Do you review your performance and do you
test your professional skills on a regular basis?
4. Do you achieve consistent results, regardless
of market conditions, that help you rank in the top 20 percent
of your peer group?
5. Do you devote a minimum of five percent
of your time to professional development?
CONCLUSION:
Success is a process. Just when you think
you've arrived, a new challenge presents opportunities for
growth and creativity. For companies this means entering
new markets, adjusting to economic conditions, downsizing,
upgrading and retooling.
The benchmarking process provides an ongoing
system for maintaining high productivity while measuring
success in the marketplace.
The idea of personal benchmarking may be new.
It may be unusual. It may be daring. It may also be your
best bet for finding out where you are and where you need
to go.
To perform at the highest levels in all 10
success areas, fill out your benchmark tests, retake them
every month, track your progress and watch your success
profile expand. Remember that superachievers always aim
at success, but never think that they have achieved it.
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